A Helpful Dating Guide for Introvert Men
Does dating feel like a nightmare?
Dating is all about socializing. This is good news for extroverts who are masters at carrying a conversation, but it’s torture for introverts who only have little energy to mingle.
As dating isn’t their strongest suit, many introvert men feel like there’s no hope of them finding a partner.
One of our clients, who described himself as an introvert, tried to push himself to join our socials and tours in an attempt to step out of his comfort zone and hopefully meet his match.
If you’re in a similar situation, don’t let your doubts and fears get the best of you.
According to him, he initially thought that he was putting himself in a tricky situation by allowing himself to be the center of women’s attention for two nights.
Contrary to expectations, however, the atmosphere suited introverted men like him.
Get to know more about his experience and pick up some dating tips along the way.
Testing the Waters
For introverts, socializing is easier when done through writing instead of talking.
The lack of direct contact gives them time to organize their thoughts into a message, as well as carry the conversation in their comfort zone.
Using this approach to dating, our client decided to test the waters.
He started to browse single women profiles on our site. After determining which women caught his interest, he reached out to them with the help of our matchmakers.
He sent mails to eight women, expressing his desire to get to know them better. Out of all of them, five responded, expressing a similar interest.
His communication with them continued until the day he arrived in their country for the socials and tour.
Bonding with Like-Minded Individuals
Introverts are often stereotyped as loners because they’re not fans of big groups and small talk.
However, put them in a room with like-minded individuals, and they’re bound to get along and have fun.
Our client, for instance, mentioned that he had a great time bonding with the guys on the tour and enjoyed watching them go all out dancing at the socials.
In a room that was mostly filled with more women than men, he found it easy to connect with them.
Moreover, since they were all looking for serious relationships, they felt inclined to help each other out.
For our client, this outweighed any doubts and fears he had about socializing with them.
Discovering Intentions
As they’re not often the center of attention, introverts have a clear view of the bigger picture from their comfortable spot on the sidelines.
Because of this, they’re more skilled at assessing a person’s intentions based on body language and facial expressions.
Our client tried to utilize this skill to see if the women at the socials had any hidden agendas.
According to him, they were unbelievably nice towards him and the other men.
He wanted to make sure they were not putting up a mask.
He found that unlike women on random dating sites or social apps for introverts, the women he met were indeed who they claimed to be.
“I couldn’t find any hidden agenda except for them genuinely wanting to get to know us,” our client said.
He also expressed that those he had corresponded with prior to attending the socials and tour were serious about being in a committed relationship with him, as they had expressed in their letters.
This led him to feel even more comfortable despite being in a big crowd.
A Good Kind of Confusion
Contrary to expectations, our client stated that for introvert men like him, the socials and tour made dating feel like an easy task.
However, he now faces a dilemma, which he terms “a good kind of confusion.”
While introverts don’t usually have many options when it comes to potential partners due to their small social circle, our client found himself leaving the country while maintaining communication with the five women he had written to.
He also formed new connections with other women, all of whom were equally beautiful and interesting.
Just like that, he now finds himself constantly chatting with them as he tries to choose the most compatible partner.
Dating Sites for Shy People
“This is the way to do it, nothing compares.”
This is what our client said as he described our socials and tour.
If you’re an introvert like him, why not adopt the same dating approach he did?
Instead of relying solely on a dating app for introverts and fearing the prospect of meeting new people offline, take a step out of your comfort zone.
However, remember to prioritize your comfort and stick to what already works for introverts like you.
Seek the help of our matchmakers and experience easy dating at our socials and tour.
