How to Know If a Woman Has Genuine Love for You

 A couple showing genuine love for each other.
Genuine love is always looking for the best in the other person.

You’ve been in love with this woman for as long as you can remember. She’s everything you’ve ever wanted in a woman—beautiful, kind, intelligent, and funny.

However, you still aren’t sure if she’s really into you and if her love is true. You’re afraid she might not be as invested in the relationship as you are. You’re also afraid of getting hurt if she changes her mind down the road.

So, you’re searching for signs that she genuinely loves you or if it’s inauthentic love she’s giving. It would be devastating to find out that this is unrequited love after all you’ve done to gain her love.

Now, you analyze the small details, like how she makes you feel when you’re around her. You ask yourself if you feel loved, appreciated, and respected. You begin to evaluate, and possibly doubt, the relationship and her behavior.

Is it genuine love?

What Is Genuine Love

We have all experienced love and heartbreak. While our experiences have been painful, we are grateful for them because we know that we have only experienced genuine love. There is no regret when it comes to authentic love.

But when can we say that it’s genuine love? According to an article published by Centre for Emotional Education, genuine love is a deliberate choice to commit to the growth and well-being of oneself and another, even when it’s difficult. It’s not about what you give to the other person. It is about seeing the other person for who they are, flaws and all, and loving them unconditionally.

Oftentimes, genuine love is not easy to find. But when you realize that a person is willing to love you for who you are, it will be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life.

10 Signs a Woman Genuine Loves You

Women can be difficult to read. Their actions can oftentimes be misinterpreted, making it hard for some men to tell the qualities of love they feel. However, there are actions that can help determine if it’s true love she feels toward you.

A couple acting like it’s true love they find with each other.
You know it’s true love when you feel a sense of familiarity and understanding that you have never felt before.

Here are some common signs to help you tell if a woman genuinely loves you:

1. She prioritizes you.

She makes time for you, even when she’s busy. A woman who genuinely loves you will make you a priority. She will put you first, even when it’s inconvenient for her. She will make you feel like you are the most important person in her life. She would want to spend more time with you if she can.

2. She’s your biggest cheerleader.

She supports you in your dreams. She’s always there for you to celebrate your successes. She will be your biggest fan and will always be there to believe in you. She knows that your dreams are important to you, and she believes that you’re capable of great things.

3. She’s there when you need her.

She’s emotionally and physically available to you when you need her. She is there to listen to you, offer support, and help you through tough times. She will be your shoulder to cry on and your rock to lean on. She genuinely wants to help you feel better and get through it.

A woman looking at a man who is looking at a phone. A woman looking at a man who is looking at a phone.
4. She accepts you despite your flaws.

She loves you for who you are, including your imperfections. She knows that you don’t put your laundry in the laundry basket. She knows how loud you snore. She knows that you can be messy and forgetful. But she loves you anyway. She knows that you’re a good person even though you have your flaws.

5. She listens to you and values your opinions.

She takes time to hear what you have to say and respects your thoughts and feelings. She doesn’t dismiss you or belittle your opinions. She asks for your approval on some important decisions in her life, especially when she’s confused. She knows that communication is essential for a strong relationship. So, she tries to talk to you about anything and everything.

6. She’s affectionate.

One of the love traits of women is physical touch. She will show you physical affection, such as giving hugs and kisses. She will make you feel loved, appreciated, and special. Physical touch is a way for her to show you how much she cares about you. It will help her feel closer and connected to you.

A couple showing affection as one of the love traits in a relationship.
A woman who genuinely loves you will express her love through her love traits, which makes her more lovable.
7. She treats you with respect.

She values you as a person and treats you with kindness, consideration, and fairness. She doesn’t take you for granted or make you feel like you’re not good enough. She treats you with respect, even when you disagree with her. She shows you how much she appreciates you.

8. She remembers even the littlest details about you.

She pays attention to you and remembers things that are important to you, even if they are small. She remembers your favorite things, your birthday, and your anniversary. She wants to know what makes you happy.

9. She introduces you to her family and friends.

She sees you as a permanent part of her life, so she wants you to meet the people that she loves. She introduces you to her family and friends, and she wants you to feel comfortable around them. She also wants to see how you get along with them.

10. She plans a future with you.

She sees a future with you, so he includes you in her plans. She talks about the future with you and asks for your input. She wants to make sure that your plans align and that you are on the same page about the future. She wants you to feel like you are a part of her life and you are important to her.

When love is real, it finds a way.

When we love someone, we often expect that they will love us back. However, this is not always the case. Sometimes, the other person may not be able to reciprocate our feelings. However, this should not be a reason to stop searching for love.

Remember that if one door closes, another one opens. Rejection does not mean giving up on love. It only means that there’s a person who is more deserving of your genuine love. As they say, true love waits. And if it’s for you, it will find its way.

So, enjoy the love you feel for someone, and don’t be afraid to let it go if it is not reciprocated. Let love be genuine, even if it means letting go.