Why Dating After 40 Is a Worthwhile Experience
One day, you’re young, wild, and free. Then, the rest of your days pass like it’s nothing. Now, you find yourself entering your 40s and you wonder where the time went. Maybe life has been kind to you, but maybe it hasn’t. Relationships came and went, and now you’re faced with a new challenge: dating after 40.
Daunting, isn’t it?
It can be especially daunting for those who have spent their 20s and 30s happily spoken for, only for those relationships to reach their natural conclusion when they’re of an age where most would prefer the comforts of being with a partner.
Yet, as scary as the thought of re-entering the dating pool in the 4th decade of life can be, there’s actually a lot of unexpected good awaiting those who are brave enough. Read on, and you’ll see why dating again in middle age can be a worthwhile experience.
Those in their 40s Have Greater Life Experience to Drawn Upon
As late as one’s 40s might seem for dating, there is the clear advantage of no longer being young and inexperienced. By then, one should have a wealth of life experiences that can help guide one towards better dating choices this time around.
Mistakes made in previous relationships will stop being sources of shame and regret, and will instead become sources of wisdom. That means relationships that get started by those in their 40s have greater potential for long-term satisfaction in spite of the baggage that each person might carry with them.
Those in their 40s Tend to be More Financially Stable
Having been adults for two decades now, those dating in their 40s should be more settled in their careers. While this isn’t always the case, that can translate to greater financial stability, which in turn can translate to dating opportunities that would not have been otherwise available before.
For example, a man past 40 with a stable career and finances can take a well-deserved trip to Costa Rica in order to find romance opportunities better suited to his tastes. Had said man been two decades younger–back when he was still establishing himself–it might be a lot more difficult to do the same thing.
Those in their 40s Tend to Know Themselves Better
Due to the aforementioned wealth of life experiences accumulated by the time one has reached his or her 4th decade, it goes without saying that those in their 40s have a greater sense of self-awareness as well. This can serve them well not just in life overall, but in dating.
In knowing themselves better, those in their 40s will be less likely to waste their time with incompatible partners. They will be better aware of what they are looking for, what they like, and what they don’t like, as opposed to those in their 20s or 30s.
Dating after 40 isn’t for everyone nor does anyone really seem like they look forward to it. Done right, however, and it can be just as fun and fulfilling as dating in any other age. All it takes is knowing your worth, gathering your courage, and taking that plunge back into the dating pool.
Who knows? It may just be the time of your life.
