How To Spot Red Flags in Costa Rican Women

Find out the red flags when meeting Costa Rican women!

Nobody wishes to be tricked, scammed or bamboozled. No one wants to make the mistake of falling in love with a lady who isn’t… “dating material” from the start. Let’s just say that when we meet Costa Rican women, we want to be able to identify the dating red flags right away.

You might be wondering how we’ll go about doing that. If you don’t know what to look for, you won’t see the signs. Fortunately, we’ve developed a list of things to look out for that will help you decide where you want to stand with the lady.

But, even if we say so, what if you’ve already been with such a woman and are only now noticing that something isn’t quite right? That can happen very frequently, don’t you think? Particularly because people rarely exhibit their true colors in the early stages of a relationship.

The following are some of the warning signs to keep an eye out for.

Hopefully, you will meet someone who has nothing in common with the things on this list.

1. She Constantly Talks About Herself And Rarely Shows Interest In Your Life

Latina women have long been proud of their appearances, which is understandable given how much effort they put into maintaining their perfect appearances all of the time. However, you may find yourself conversing with certain girls who don’t seem to understand the difference between confidence and arrogance.

It’s natural to be enamored with your partner in the early stages of a relationship and want to be a listening ear to someone who excitedly talks enough for both parties. But later, when you feel comfortable enough to talk openly about yourself, you realize she doesn’t care enough to listen to you, or she quickly diverts the conversation back to herself about what she did or who she’s feuding with on social media. It’s important to recognize that this is a warning sign.

2. She Bad-mouths Her Exes ― All Of Them

We understand that people are fragile and emotional beings who have the right to be upset after a breakup — but isn’t it indicative of your conduct if your exes are all you ever talk about and you constantly moan about what they did wrong without even realizing that you are equally to blame?

How can you be sure she’s the proper person for you if she’s like this? Please be aware that this is highly toxic behavior.

3. She Is In A Bad Mood ALL The Time

Every now and then, everybody is in a bad mood. When hungry, some people can even appear enraged until they eat something that makes them feel better.

But don’t kid yourself into believing it’s not a huge deal if she’s always upset.

4. She Likes To Gaslight You

When a partner knows your intuition is true, but tries to muddy the waters by making you second-guess yourself, usually by implying that you’re overreacting, this is known as gaslighting. When family or friends do it, it’s not good for you, and it’s even worse when your partner does it.

One of the dating red flags to look out for is when she gets manipulative and gaslights you in an argument.

Fortunately, most women do not go to the extent of gaslighting their male partners. If your partner, on the other hand, does, you’ll know immediately. Take note and think about whether she’s the one for you.

5. She Makes Fun Of You In Front Of Others

Even when you tell her she shouldn’t. Women aren’t normally as harsh, but there are times when you find yourself in the terrible position of being with someone who has her head in the clouds.

It’s possible that she’s immature since she’s so much younger than you. You’re old enough to know when to let her be or put your foot down, so a little teasing is fine. At the very least, this isn’t as harmful as it is for younger couples, but it will always be your obligation as a potential lover to guide her to maturity.

6. Constant Refusal to Spending Time With Your Family

When it comes to family, Costa Rican men and women are similar to other Latin people. It is more important to them than you may believe. So, if your girl likes to avoid talking about her family when it comes up, that’s a red flag because it’s immediately suspicious.

Although it can be seen as her being protective of her family and not wanting to disclose anything regarding them – understandable since it’s a rather personal topic – it doesn’t count if you’ve been with her for a very long time. Especially if she’s already spent so much time hanging out with your own family.

7. No Respect For Your Boundaries

Every living person who wants a shot at dating — no, every single decent human being — should understand the value of respecting their partner. You should recognize the boundaries and not cross them, whether you are a Costa Rican beautiful woman, a Western man, an Asian woman, or a Russian man.

If she doesn’t respect this, then it’s time to call it quits. Respecting one’s boundaries shouldn’t be optional. Costa Rican dating culture definitely doesn’t say that you should ignore it.

8. She Takes Advantage Of Your Generosity

Latina women aren’t greedy in reality, but beware of those that are.

When it comes to dating a foreign woman younger than you, there will be stereotypes and there will be people talking. Many of them do go after westerners for money or visas, but this is not the case with all of them. Many women who desire to date guys from other nations do so because they, like you, are looking for love.

Still, when people talk, it’s usually because there is a semblance of truth behind it. Watch out for when your girl starts asking for expensive things, or subtly indicating things like going to costly restaurants, giving her something almost out of your price range, or outright demanding stuff from you.

9. She Is Weirdly Possessive And Secretive About Her Phone

If they’re going to go to the trouble of hiding things from their lovers, at the very least they shouldn’t make it too obvious. It’s a sure sign that you’re hiding something and don’t want your romantic partner to know if you’re possessive of your phone and refuse to allow it to be borrowed.

Relationships are about love and trust, right? If you can’t trust your own lover with whatever it is you have on your phone, then who can you trust?

10. She Asks Too Many Probing Questions

When you’re getting to know each other, it’s normal to ask personal questions, especially when you’re at the initial stage of your relationship. But if her line of questioning becomes scrutinizing, it’s probably wise to take a mental step back and wonder what her end goal is.

It could be harmless. Maybe she’s just trying to see whether both of you have similar relationship goals. Maybe she’s looking for someone who matches her financial expectations.

As always, when meeting a Costa Rican lady for the first time, it’s important to keep the conversations light and easy. By asking too many probing questions, it seems like she’s only rushing the encounter and only cares about the answers you give her.

What Happens If She Ticks Out Everything On This List?

It’s easy. You move on to a nicer Costa Rican lady. There aren’t many Costa Rican women who engage in behavior on this list. The majority of them really desire love. Allowing one unpleasant experience to ruin your prospects of finding love and happiness is not a good idea. Remember that discovering your one true love may require sifting through the bad eggs first.

A couple of great ways to meet good quality Costa Rican ladies is by signing up on online dating websites or going through a matchmaking service. The former is great if you want to test the waters first before making any serious commitments, while the latter is if you’re serious about looking for a long-term Costa Rican partner.

Additionally, online dating websites give you tons of flexibility, and you’re spoiled with choices with the large number of users in the database. With matchmaking services, the process is different. It’s more specialized and you’re assisted by the company to find your ideal partner in their dating roster.

Whichever route you choose, you’ll eventually find a Costa Rican woman to your liking.